Do you find that you spend a lot of time thinking about how you are going to get your way? Do you spend a lot of time thinking about how people have done you wrong? When you walk into a room, do you feel as if everyone is watching you? Do you start a lot of phrases with "I want?" Part of recovering from addiction is becoming concerned about others and not only ourselves. It says in the Big Book that "selfishness is the root of our problem."
Try doing something nice for someone else and perhaps do it anonymously or without them expecting it.