Forgive, don't resent; love, but try not to get screwed; but when you do get screwed, don't beat up on yourself because it happens to all of us. Therein, lies the peace of sobriety.
Stop and think about what you are doing. Make honest, pure, loving, unselfish decisions, but don't forget lessons you have learned. Catch yourself if you are letting people, places, and things run you down just because you are afraid to be assertive.