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Which of the Two Wolves do you feed?

The Fable of the Two Wolves (of the Cherokee Indians) One day a young Cherokee Indian...


I used to HAVE to do things, today I GET to do things.

When I was using, I had to lose my driver's license, I had to lie to my spouse, I...


We don't think less of ourselves, we think about ourselves less.

Healthy self image is our goal today. When I was drugging, it was all about me. I...


My problems of today are beyond my dreams of yesterday

A SoberTool User told me the following: "I live in a house with my girlfriend. My...


Who cares?

So many of our problems are just petty. We worry about whether we are liked. We obsess...


What screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it's supposed to be

Life always turns out differently than we picture. Two kids, two TV's, two computers,...


The tow truck driver was kind.

Oh no! The other car wiped out my entire right side of my car. My right arm might...


It's gone but I'm not sad, for having had it I am glad.

When I am grieving over having lost someone or something, it's good for me to remember...


Our EGO does not exist so why let it bother us?

How many times do we feel sad, hurt or even worthless because our ego is pierced?...


Do You Need Permission to Feel Good?

"I 'shoulda' done that… If only I 'woulda' done that…That 'coulda' happened, but...