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Which Wolf do you feed?

The Fable of the Two Wolves (of the Cherokee Indians) One day a young Cherokee Indian...


I used to HAVE to do things, today I GET to do things.

When I was using, I had to lose my driver's license, I had to lie to my spouse, I...


We don't think less of ourselves, we think about ourselves less.

Healthy self image is our goal today. I have reduced all of the self measuring. The...


My problems of today are beyond my dreams of yesterday

A SoberTool User told me the following: "I live in a house with my wife. My problems...


Who cares?

So many of our problems are just petty. We worry about whether we are liked. We obsess...


What screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it's supposed to be

Life always turns out differently than we picture. Two kids, two TV's, two computers,...


The tow truck driver was kind.

Oh no! The other car wiped out my entire right side of my car. My right arm might...


It's gone but I'm not sad, for having had it I am glad.

When I am grieving over having lost something, it's good for me to remember that...


Today I don't have to, I get to.

When I was using, I had to cover my tracks, run from authority, and suffer all the...


Sometimes it takes a storm to see how much time has been wasted worrying about the squalls.

The pandemic of 2020! The Great Famine of 1845! The Great Depressions of 1929 and...