You think life is unfair, you have a lot of self pity or you feel sad?

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A sense of humor is a serious thing

In a great scene from the classic movie, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Butch...


The only difference between a flower and a weed is judgment.

It's not what's happening, it's what we think about it. A rainy day may be depressing...


You are NOT such a special snow flake

You are not the only one with this disease. You are not terminally unique. You are...


"It's better to put on slippers than to carpet the World." - Kerry Kelly

Are you making things more difficult than they have to be? Is all of this trying...


Stop beating yourself up!

The dice are loaded. The game isn't fair. You are imperfect. You make mistakes and have...


Life is not a T.V. show

Problems usually don't resolve in a half hour. Life doesn't always give us a satisfying...


My problems of today are beyond my dreams of yesterday

A SoberTool User told me the following: "I live in a house with my wife. My problems...


Who cares?

So many of our problems are just petty. We worry about whether we are liked. We obsess...


When I'm sober I can be a good person, when I'm not sober I have to convince myself I'm a good person.

When I was trapped by my addiction, I would spend hours telling myself that I wasn't...


I can only make some sense of Life when I think something bigger is going on

Pandemics, racism, tornadoes, starvation, war, disease, and injustices abound. Trying...