When I first stopped drinking, I would sit at the bar and drink Diet Coke after Diet Coke. After about six Diet Cokes and meaningless conversation with inebriated people, I realized that I was, quite simply, in the wrong place. I was stressed and bored at the same time, and with booze staring me in the face, I was setting myself up for relapse. Changing where we socialize will help my personality to change and make life easier and more fun.
Today, I will stay in dry places with dry people. The best place is with people I can identify with who are learning skills to live life without using.