Worrying about what others think of us leads us to drink. Even worrying about whether or not they trust us is sobriety threatening. Does that person like me? Did I say the right thing? Does my car make me look like I fit in? These are the beginnings of a long list of thoughts that will trigger relapse. How many can you add to the list right now?
Tell yourself right now, that "people pleasin' leads to drinkin" and that you need to stop right now to feel serene.